This website is about the journey I’ve been on as I’ve tried to break free from the the evangelical church.

I’m a transgender lady that spent 35 years of my life trapped in a horrible cycle of fear, guilt, and shame. I was taught to be ashamed of who I was, and that I was going to be tortured for all eternity just for being me. It was pretty awful.

I created this website to try to help other people like myself that might be trapped, too. I sometimes think about how different my life might had been had someone reached out to me earlier in life and said “hey, it’s okay that you are who you are! You are not a monster!”

The story that follows is the path I’ve taken to get here. It’s long, winding, and pretty emotional. There’s a lot of heartache along the way, but it ends happy.

If my story seems familiar to you, please know that you are not alone. There’s a bunch of us that got trapped, and we’re all working together to find our own way out. You are not alone, I promise. 💜

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